I’m pretty traditional in my perspective. I prefer to make the first move. I have a good enough career that I would like to give my wife the choice of whether or not to work outside the home. She would be free to just volunteer her time doing things she loves or to continue a career as well.
I have to admit that I have been hesitant to reach out to women online in the past. I think this is because I know that marriage is the ultimate hope of the relationship, and the nature of this just makes it much more difficult to really know someone.