If we start talking I’m going to expect you to get on video cam. I don’t have time to waste with people who aren’t real. I know that sounds harsh but I’m serious about finding my beloved and I don’t want to waste my time with people out herefor games.Had enough of that. So if we are at a distance we will need to get on video camera otherwise I am not interested.

Never expected to be on a dating site but after 30 plus years of marriage to my high school sweetheart, I lost her to cancer. After 7 long years of being on my own- I feel I need to actively look for the last love of my life

I'm at my best when making people laugh. I can find the humor in just about anything - sarcasm and irreverence are my friends. If philosophy paid, I'd be a billionaire. But it doesn't, so I have a day job. Which isn't too bad either. I'm attracted to women who can be my verbal sparring partner and who give as well as they get. Overall, I'm a fun guy to be around, I'm pretty laid back and looking for the same in a relationship. Someone who can be serious, silly and also appreciate those times when quiet is just as reassuring as a conversation.

In my free time, I like to hang out with a few close friends, cook, check out new restaurants around town, and more than anything else, travel. I'm mostly drawn to the beach, having grown up on the East Coast. That said, I prefer the West Coast and Caribbean - palm trees make me happy. That's where the beach bar comes in. Some of my favorite places are San Diego, Vegas, St. Maarten and Barcelona, Spain. I've had the good fortune to see many parts of the world, both for work and fun.